I see again and again that no matter how seemingly small, or scarily big, what people really want is; it leads to growth and aliveness.

Coaching is about giving you a boost to clarify what you want, and find your path.

No matter the change you want to see in your life, the core principles of creating change are the same. Change begins with getting an accurate 'X on the map', which means getting clear about exactly who you are right now that you are getting exactly the results you are getting right now. Simple but important, and this is where step 1,2,3... methods for change fail. They give you a formula, but do not necessarily meet you where you are.

Change continues with finding out what you want, which includes opening yourself up to different ways of thinking. That is, seeing your same circumstances, from a different perspective. This is 'your treasure' on your map. And the next step is experimenting! Try things out, and make your experiences. Every action is a step on your path.

Find your 'x on the map'

Take action!

Experiment!

Create the Relationships you really want

My work is shaped around the question; who would you need to become, to create the results you want? Which means, what different ways of seeing things are there, so that new options really become available to you? And who are you when you step into those new options and try them out?

For the last 10 years I have been immersed in coaching, and group workshops & trainings, learning about creating change in life from the inside out. Starting with my own life, and coaching others along the way.

For me it is so clear I can only offer bridges to others that I have already walked over myself. So I carry a strong ethos of 'walking my talk'. I live in community at Ontree (www.ontreecentre.org), I have a 10-year committed relationship with the love of my life - Ana Norambuena (we are co-founders of RelationShift!), and two step children, one of whom has just left home, and the other is 14 years old and immersed in the challenges and joys of teenagehood!